Tanner News From Hobbiton. Postings since our emigration from Hawkinge in the UK to Matamata, New Zealand in 2001.
Sunday, October 05, 2008
Trees down, drive done
Anyway... when Harriette and I get weighed it seems that one always looses and one gains. Last week we both lost, even though Harriette only just lost (100g's). At least it was a loss. She gave herself a bit of a kick up the backside a few days ago when she realised that at her current average rate it will take her 72 weeks to get to goal. The ball is 9 months away. We both decided to have a 'perfect' week just to see how much we could loose, and to give ourselves a bit of a kickstart. We are both doing well and my weight is dropping daily. I always knew that daily weighing was the right thing for me and now the research backs that. In America they have a study on people who have lost large amounts of weight, and have kept it off for at least 3 years. They then look at what it is about these people that mean they can keep the weight off. One thing they found was that a lot of them weighed daily. Not right for everyone but certainly works for me. I am also 100% confindent that I will keep my weight off. Only just over 4kg off my upper goal weight now :-)
Our drive is almost finished. Anyone who has driven on it in the last 3 years will know that a 4x4 is a distinct advantage (all 3 of our cars are!). Well, we finally got the money organised (close on $10,000!!) and arranged with a local contractor to get the job done. The speed one guy with a digger worked was quite amazing. In 1hr 30 mins he had dug a hole you could fit a house in, in the paddock, pushed the remains of the enormous fire (tree stumps etc) into it and filled and flattened the land. I couldn't believe it. Anyway, they scooped out around the roots and pushed over about 20 trees from the slope on the drive and behind the cottage and workshop, leveled and spread metal on the drive, and finally graded and rolled it. We have had piles of fencing materials delivered and are just waiting on Scott to come and erect the post and rail fencing along both sides of the drive. The final job will be to plant some trees in the paddock and daffodils along the fenceline and it will be finished. The transformation so far is amazing and the views opened up stunning. We plan to move the window in our bedroom so we see them when we are sitting in bed.
I have spent a lot of time working on the Young Musicians Workshop which is on next weekend. I really wish I had been given the task earlier so I could have advertised in a more logical and comprehensive fashion. I got an email mailing list from the Ministry of Education (470 addresses) but did not have time to check which schools were on it. I also would have liked to have sent fliers out earlier etc. Still it's the first time I, or either of the conductors, have done it and we have lernt lots. We'll have about 45 people this year. Next year I want 100! WYMA, the organisation I am deputy chair for, is in a state of transition at the moment and there are a few problems with it. I am really hoping we can get things sorted over the next few months ready for next year.
The girls have been on school holidays this week. I have set rules about computer use which means off by 9:30am and not back on until they have tidied up and mid-afternoon, whichever comes later. This means they only get about 6-8 hours a day in front of the screen which they feel is so tough!!!! Apart from the bare minimum of housework, they read. Harriette undertook a spring clean of her bedroom yesterday, only because the alternative was working outside. They did manage about 45 mins outdoors. Harriette drove the truck and they both loaded up tree branches that the truck and digger had knocked/pulled down. We have had a large bonfire in the front paddock most of the week. Some of the wood has been there for years, since Ian and Shirley pulled down trees on the boundary, so burnt really well. Added to that, heaps of branches of cedar and it was an impressive bonfire. Carol we couldn't wait any longer for you to come back - sorry!! Carol, we also wanted to tell you that we rescued some of the burnt fenceposts (care of your fire) and have incorporated them into a fence running from the stable to the back paddocks.
Our Rotary club was hit by a tragedy last week. The 44 yr old son of one of our members was murdered in Auckland. As he left work a bloodied woman approached him asking for help. As he helped her a man attacked him with a knife and he died instantly. In NZ the police leave bodies at a crime scene for 1-2 days and so this poor family were behind a police cordon for nearly 2 days waiting for access to the body. I am sure the police could do things differently. Being able to see/hold/touch a deseased loved one is an important part of the grieiving process that these families are denied for too long. Needless to say Austin was one of lifes good people, a devout Christian, hard worker, father of 3 teenagers and a generally nice person. He was born and raised in Matamata so lots of people here knew him. So very sad, and such a waste. The murderer is under arrest and was known to the woman.
This weekend is being spent working on the block. It is one of those great weekends where we don't have anything planned. Eric is looking at fencing. I say looking, he hasn't done any yet. Yesterday we borrowed a neighbours tractor to do odd jobs. I wanted to retrieve some topsoil from the paddock where the big hole was but that wasn't very successful. However, Eric had great fun pushing/pulling up tree stumps (not from the drive, they've all gone. These ones were dotted around the paddocks from trees felled long before we got here) and pulling out some fence posts. Today he should be fencing. I weeded. As I've said before these mild (compared to the UK) winters are fine but the weeds grow 12 months of the year. Last weekend Eric and I went out to look at trees after dropping Alice at a friends dairy farm for an 18th birthday celebration. There was a huge downpour of rain and we took refuge at The Olde Creamery, a cafe out in the sticks. As we parked we spied a dilapidated polytunnel exactly the size that I want. We discussed with the owner and I am now waiting for her to speak to her husband but she thinks I might be able to have it. I have room in my veg plot, in fact it is exactly the right size, so I am very hopeful. Fingers crossed.
Sunday, September 07, 2008
A busy week (and that's news??)
Fathers Day here so Mom and Daddy are coming over for lunch. I must check what time I said to come, it might have been for supper! The girls have bought Eric a dartboard. They were sick of buying him fishing stuff. We thought it might be a good thing to have in the workshop. It may even help with Harriette’s lack of hand eye co-ordination, a trait I must claim to have been too generous in passing down in the genes.
I have had one of those frantic weeks. Monday I was teaching in Te Kuiti in the evening, about 1hr 15 mins drive away. It could have been a huge disaster. I checked I had everything before I left. Even opened the boot to make sure I had the dataprojector, even though I knew it was in there. Got to the venue and was horrified to find I’d left my laptop on my desk! That was just the start of it. I arranged to borrow a laptop from a nearly medical centre and phoned Harriette to have her email them the powerpoint presentation I was doing only to find the medical centre have no key to the padlock holding the laptop to the wall. Eventually, only 4 turned up so I presented verbally and handed round my notes for them to look at any significant graphs etc. Got home around 10pm.
Tuesday I flew to Christchurch on the South Island to help the new regional advisor down there with some training. Linda is lovely and on Tuesday I had tea at her place with her husband and 2 young children whom I spent a chunk of the evening reading to. (The children not Noel!) (sidenote 6.30am and it’s light – spring is well on it’s way). Wednesday I woke at 5.15am, which meant I had time to go for a run. I got a bit lost so my 24 mins I usually do run to over 30mins. I found myself round by the cathedral on the way back. We taught from 8.30am to 9pm as we had an Update to do on the evening of the first day. An Update is a 4 hour course established vaccinators do as opposed to the 2 day VTC we were running for new vaccinators. Thursday it was back at 8.30am but I left at 1pm to fly home. My flight back was via Wellington but the CC-Wellington leg was cancelled. I departed 5 mins later than planned but on a direct flight through to Hamilton. I have no idea why I couldn’t get on that to start with. Back in Hamilton I went straight through into the city as there was a band practice that night. I had missed the previous week because of the symposium in Auckland and next Thursday I will be teaching in Tauranga so felt I had to put in an appearance. Got home at 9pm. Friday I was back I Hamilton early as I was teaching all morning and chairing the DHB Immunisation Stakeholders forum in the afternoon. I asked one paediatrician at the meeting how he was. He replied “Crawling to the weekend” I so know what he meant!
Friday evening Harriette needed taking to a friends out near Okororie Tavern for a birthday sleepover. We went together to drop her off and decided to call into the pub for supper. Alice has joined Youth Band (and is still with Schools band) and was in Hamilton. I have found someone to share the travelling with and this was Cathy’s week for the run.
Saturday it was back in to Hamilton for a meeting with the 2 conductors leading the Young Musicians Workshop planned for October. I have foolishly said I will organise this and on Monday, as I sent out 493 emails (which took me hours!), I was thinking I had bitten off far more than I could chew. I am determined we will have 100 participants (there were 70 last year) and today plan to send correspondence and fliers by snail mail to schools. It was 3pm by the time we got home yesterday and I managed to do a bit of gardening. More of that today I hope.
On the girls. Alice has been desperate to join Youth band and is so pleased to be finally there. The group is older, and being 14 going on 25, she fits in well with them. She now has a fringe, and with the glasses, she is so often not recognised. It is quite funny. In the library (a place she has visited almost weekly for 7 years) she was asked her name recently. Alison did a double take when Alice told her.
Harriette is not going to Youth Band yet. She does not like one of the conductors and I think finds it too competitive. Not to mention she hates moving outside her comfort zone. She is about to start NCEA level 1 exams (GCSE equivalents) so is in study mode at the moment. I am not sure how much of it is genuine study and how much is looking ‘far too busy studying to do housework etc’! Don’t get me wrong, she is studying but….. At the sleepover the other night it was most odd to see several of the girls arriving in their cars. ie they drove themselves! The parents went our to friends for dinner to give the girls, 15 and 16 year olds, a bit of space. Apparently the power went off for several hours, after dark, and the cat bought a mouse in. You can imagine the hysteria this created! Harriette joined WW’s several weeks ago and is finding it much harder than she thought. She absolutely refuses to exercise and I cannot see how you can succeed without it. She had a good loss last week though so it a bit more buoyed up at the moment. I have missed a week and the previous week I was weighed in Auckland. I haven’t been very good but am just about keeping on track I think. When I was in Christchurch Linda told me her sister, Jan, was the NZ WW of the year this year. Get this. She lost 63 kg in exactly 1 year. That’s 10 stone!!!!! It’s taken me 18 months to loose half that. Still, although I’m impressed by Jan’s loss, I’m still pleased with mine. I just hope I can keep Harriette on track. Please click ‘Comments’ if you want to post words of encouragement and I’ll see she gets them. (This could backfire. From the lack of comments this last year I am wondering if any one reads this and I’m talking to myself. No I know that’s not true as people tell me they’ve read it!! Still if Harriette reads it, no comments will make her feel no-one cares. But then I don’t need to worry, she doesn’t read it). I’m waffling which means time to go. Bye.
PS Just picked up BBC headlines. “England hit by flash floods”. Nice summer you’re having up there J
Sunday, August 24, 2008
2008 Music Festival Sucess
It’s Sunday morning, wet and windy so the perfect time to blog. Eric has gone fishing off Arapuni dam but I can’t imagine he’ll stay long. He came home with a nice trout a few weeks ago and took a photo of it. At the same time he took this photo of me as several people were asking for photographic evidence of my weight loss. I reckon it must be pretty impossible to visualise me un-fat as my entire life I have sat between overweight/obese and even bordered on grossly obese early last year. So here is a ‘on-the-way-to-goal’ photo taken in work clothes and very unglamorous.
Such a contrast to Helens ‘princess-at-the-palace’ photo’s. She looked a million dollars, just look un-fat but you get the point.
The camera was actually out for this photo:
A few things of note in the Tanner household this last few weeks. As almost the whole world already knows but I have to record in these Tanner Family records, we had a very successful time in Wellington last weekend. As Harriette said recently to someone “As you’ve probably heard already, Mom’s been telling anyone who’ll listen” To put in context; Harriette and Alice belong to Waikato Schools Symphonic Band. I landed the job of managing it about 18 months ago. WSSB belongs to the NZ Concert Band Association and they hold a festival each year where bands perform for gold, silver or bronze awards. Last year we got them there in a haphazard fashion (regular readers will remember the drama of loosing our conductor at short noticeetc) and they got a silver award. We had some great stand-in conductors including the effervescent Simon Brew who I am sure will be evident on the global stage in years to come. Anyway, I digress. This year’s trip. We flew down on Thursday morning from Hamilton. We had 27 10-17year olds, 8 parents, 1 conductor and her 3 year old daughter, Ellie. Some parents came down Thursday evening, including Eric. Paul (treasurer) and I were at a mayoral reception when they arrived. There is a story attached to the dress I wore for that. On reviewing my, now rather extensive, wardrobe I decided that I needed, but did not have, a LBD (little black dress). No trips to Hamilton were planned between this decision and Wellington so I headed into Matamata with exactly what I wanted in my minds eye, but not very hopeful of finding it. I happened to park outside the Salle Army op shop (charity shop) and thought I’d have a quick look. Walked in and the 3rd item in on a rack labelled ‘newly arrived’ was the LBD I had in my head. I tried it on, emerged from the changing room to look in the mirror and the lady said “That looks like it was made for you” $10 (about GBP3)!!! What a bargin. I was thrilled. Clicky court shoes with a tiny heel (I never wear heels), sheer stockings (I don’t wear anything other than socks. She closest I ever get to glamour is Tesco’s 30 denier black tights in the winter) a few bits of jewellery and I felt great. And guess what. I got no photos!!!! And all to go out with a man I was not married to!!! Eric was there when we got back and it was only a short affair. The reception was small but very pleasant. We had intended popping in and making our exit as soon as possible but ended up almost being shown the door as the last to leave!! The food was excellent, very nouvelle cuisine, and the wine was plentiful. Back at the YHA we settled in to a evening of chat and relaxation, and plenty of wine as the headache I woke at 4am testified to. I was actually glad I did wake then. It gave me chance to rehydrate (3 glasses of water and 2 mugs of tea taken back to our room) and take some paracetamol. At least by 7am when I got up I was then able to function. I had absolutely no idea I had drunk so much but Eric assured me I did!!!
So, Friday. The problem we had in Wellington was, having flown down we were transportless down there. I had hired a bus for airport transfers and to get us to the festival venue but left the rest to walking. This was OK as the YHA hostel is very central and only 15 mins walk from the venues we needed to get to. OK unless you are carrying large instruments. Anyway. We got a shuttle to get us to a church where were doing a small public performance (as practice really). Youth Band were lending us their drums for this, or so we thought. They were also meant to be performing. Anyway, on our way there (another bus hire) I got a call to say they would not be coming. The message I got was that their conductor had decided they weren’t coming. We were then left with the problem of no percussion. Amanda (conductor) and the percussionists did a great job of improvising. Sam stamped his feet (reading music) to represent the tymps and Tim used a combination of his dinking practice drum plate and a chair to drum on, along with the tiny splash cymbal!!! Amanda asked the audience to imagine a full set of drums!! Added to this problem was another 30 mins to fill. Amanda then suggested to the audience that the ensemble and soloists might like to perform!
As well as our 30 min band performance we had entered 3 solos and an ensemble for the festival. The ensemble was a modified clarinet quartet consisting of Harriette, Alice and 2 Matamata College school friends, Bec’s and Jacqueline. Alice played bass clarinet and Harriette did something with the music to suit her tenor sax. They did an arrangement of ‘Puttin On The Ritz’. The solos were Brenda (only 10 years old) on flute, Ania (a friend of Alice’s and a very advanced flutist) and Alice on clarinet. I must admit that I thought Alice had a piece that was rather to advanced for her level of play Eine Kliene Musik by Hayden. Anyway they guys then played their pieces, which was the first time the rest of the band had heard them. Luckily Paul King, the girls itinerent teacher and technical advisor to the Youth Band was in the audience so was on hand to tune them.
So, this performance completed we moved across the road to the NZ Air Force band rooms for the solo and ensembles festival performance. Alice and the ensemble was recorded and can be found on this website. The recordings are not good and Alice has had to be squashed to fit the page. She’s not fat really!! But you’ll get the idea.
www.youtube.com/user/schoolsband. I was very proud of them all. This all completed we then went back to the hostel for free time. The younger kids were organised to go to Te Papa/shopping etc with parental supervision and the older ones given rules for hitting the shops (taking cellphones/buddying etc). We organised a shuttle to collect instruments from the church and I ended up on Cuba Street shopping. Not sure where Eric was at this time! I ventured into a little secondhand bookshop and had a great find. Many years ago I went out with a guy called Peter for several years. He was a great fan of fantasy fiction and bought me the complete works of Tolkien at one point. It was totally lost on my and somewhere along the line these books and I parted ways (much to Harriettes chagrin!). Peter was a huge fan of Mervin Peake’s Gormanghast trilogy and I have been trying to find these books for Harriette for years now. My enquiries are usually greeted with blank faces. I have at some point found the 3rd book. At this shop the guy said, “You’re in luck. I normally have one or two of them in but at the moment I have the whole set” I was delighted.
The evening consisted of an early tea and an early night as our competition perfomance was at 9.30am, which meant being at the venue for 8.30am for practice and tuning. That meant breakfast from 6.30am. Eric and I had a terrible night. Got to be at a reasonable time but the rest of the hostel had other ideas. The noise went on til late then we were woken at 4am by drunk German girls. At 4.30am I hurtled out the room to yell at 3 Arab boys talking very y by the lifts. I must have looked such a sight with hair all over the place and hanging onto PJ’s that were far too large for me and I had pulled on in a temper/hurry and that I could not tie up properly as I was so angry. I don’t think I got back to sleep properly so started Saturday exhausted!
Breakfast and loading the group up went OK. About 5 of the Youth Band members also play with us but of course they were billeted with their band so just appeared intermittently. Setting up the stage was a bit of the challenge as the tymphs were the wrong side of the stage. The are pretty big and the stage manager did his best to persuade us we could manage with them where they were. I dug my heels in though. One big worry had been what to do with Ellie when Amanda was conducting. Her usual position is at Moms feet waving her own baton around with ear defenders on (she always complains the band play to loudly!). This obviously wasn’t going to be appropriate and Ellie hates me (I am usually the one dragging her away from her mom to her protestations) so who would be the best parent to manage her. Well Eric was handed this job. She seemed to have taken to him. He has this effect on 3-5 year girls. (Witness Sophie at my god-daughter’s christening and Steffie in SA). She was as good as gold with him and sat quietly on his lap though the performance of our group and the one before. The band performed fanstastically and were so much better than the one before!! Not that I am biased of course. We than had to wait until the evening to get the adjudicators report and results. We watched a few other bands and then Youth Band perform at mid-day. They are NZ’s leading symphonic band and are pretty big numbers-wise so sounded great. We then headed back, Eric and I, Paul, Karen and our children + Bec’s dwaddled on the way back going for a coffee in Cuba Street and then splitting up to do some shopping. Eric and I went back to the bookshop where I bought Kazuo Ishiguro’s ‘When We Were Orphans’ which I am currently reading and thoroughly enjoying.
In the evening we organised an early tea and a bus to get them to Wellington High School for the awards ceremony. The NZ Central Airforce Band were the guest performers for the evening. Sounds really boring I know but they were great fun. The ensembles and solos were awarded first in alphabetical order, which made us second to last. They got to us and said “Waikato Schools Symphonic Band” and looked at the award, then put it to one side. He then moved on the Youth Band!!!! He then said “That concludes the solos and ensembles awards” Panic hit our guys and I had to go around reassuring them that it would be sorted. I had been told earlier in the day that the adjudicator had “Been very pleased with the ensemble” so I knew they would be getting something. More music was played (with my heart in my mouth) and then they said there were a few more awards to make, our 4 and one other. To this day I don’t know why that happened.
(Alice is still sitting on the bed regaling the Batman movie to us (it’s going on and on and I’m not listening!!) She has just had Eric in stitches saying that Batman got ravaged by a dog. I think she meant savaged!!!)
Anyway, the ensemble got Gold (we sreamed!) Alice and Ania got silver and Brenda got bronze. When it came to the bands award I went and got Ellie from Amanda (she was sparko) so Amanda could go and collect our award. When they announced Gold I leapt up and screamed. Dear Ellie stayed fast asleep!! The scream that came from Youth Band dwarfed even ours. They were rapt for us. We were on cloud 9 for the rest of the weekend, week I would say. I deliberately did not arrange a bus back, firstly it was a downhill walk and secondly they needed the cool off period. Luckily it was a lovely warm evening, considering it is mid-winter!
Back at the hostel we bought ice cream from the supermarket over the road (open until midnight luckily) and the ensemble performed in the dining room, to the delight of the other residents. It was a great evening.
Sunday we had a very late breakfast and organised groups to go to Te Papa (the national museum) before packing everyone off to the airport. Back at Hamilton we entered the arrivals lounge to applause and flowers for Amanda and I! I was so touched.
I so wanted to get to bed early on Sunday but was determined to get emails off to all the 11 school principals so was up until 11.30pm doing that! I find that school kids here get lots of recognition for sporting achievements but not a lot for music. I wanted to be sure that the news got to the schools in a timely manner.
The following few days I contacted local papers etc to advertise the bands success so am hoping for some coverage this coming week and maybe some new recruits.
Phew!!!
The other thing I have to mention is Freckles new calf. He arrived under rather difficult circumstances. So difficult we had to get the vet out. Eric fed out on Wednesday morning and found Freckles had 2 feet sticking out. She did not seem to be making any progress so came up to get me to hold her while he examined her. He could not find the head at all and thought the calf might be dead. We called Vikki, the vet who, after a bit of a struggle delivered this little feller. We are calling him Victor after Vikki. Mom and baby are both fine.
Sunday, August 10, 2008
A Frosty Sunday Morning in August
The music of Einaudi fills the house this weekend. I recently discovered him and bought a 4 box CD from Amazon. It arrived on Friday. The girls love it and so I burnt them copies. I have several Classic FM compilations and on looking up particular tracks whose music I was enjoying without knowing who the composer was (one being the theme from ‘In My Father’s Den’ – a fabulous film – with great music) I discovered that several of them were Einaudi’s. Googled him and fell in love. No, not with him those he’s not bad looking (Italian though!), with his wonderfully relaxing music. Based around the piano it is sometimes very simple. So much so that I find myself trying to identify how the music is structured and what other instruments are involved. This does take away the relaxing component though. I listened to it trying to go to sleep one night and found I couldn’t as I was not just ‘listening’ I was really listening!
Schools band is taking up a lot of my time at the moment. We fly to Wellington next Thursday to participate in the NZ Concert Band Association National Festival. Not to be mixed up with brass bands or big bands (both of which I hate!) these guys are playing some great music, and really well. Music from; Pirates of the Caribbean, Chicago and the like. The band had about 14 members when Harriette joined and I took over as manager. We now have 37!! I’m really chuffed with that. I am also on a bit of a recruiting drive at the moment as the Festival is the end of our year and after that we start all over again working towards next year. A good time to get newbies, particularly as some members may move up to the Youth Band. I am really pleased that Eric is joining us in Wellington. We three do so much ‘band’ stuff without Eric that it is nice to have him with us for this. We fly down on Thursday morning and get them settled into the Youth Hostel. Thursday evening Paul (treasurer) and I attend a mayoral reception. Amanda, our conductor fly’s in later with Eric and 4 others. Friday is a lunchtime concert then Harriette and Alice’s ensemble (with friends Jac’s and Bec’s). Saturday the band performs for the competition proper at 9.30am, which is good in that they don’t have too long to be nervous but the audience I would imagine will be smaller than it will be later in the day. Later they have our 3 solo’s (including Alice) interspersed with Youth band’s solo participants. Youth Band are very supportive of us with some of their members helping out weekly at our practices. Some of them also perform with us. Saturday evening is the awards ceremony and Sunday is a chill out day, some shopping and probably a trip to Te Papa (the national museum 2 mins from the hostel) then an afternoon flight home. I think I should have booked Monday as a day off to recover!! Wish us luck.
We have added to our arsenal of instruments. Harriette bought herself a guitar/case/teach yourself CD and book package with birthday money and we bought Alice a wooden, professional clarinet. I’m now wondering if we can fit a baby grand into the house! (Only joking Eric. Well maybe…….)
With a heavy frost you know it’s going to be a sunny day. I am sitting here in bed looking out onto a gorgeous frosty morning (Eric even put a beanie on to go and feed out) knowing I should get up and go and do something productive. Later.
Our drive is in a desperate state of disrepair. The potholes are huge, particularly on the steep sloped bit. We have a contractor booked. He said he’d start in July time, weather permitting. It didn’t. Then it was going to be when the schools went back but the storms have meant they are busy with the repairs that bought in. It is going to be a huge job with all the trees coming out. We have been splitting wood at the rate of knots from the huge Mexican pine that was at the top of the drive and a few other trees Eric has dropped. We will have enough wood to see us through the next decade when these guys have finished. I can see a lot of weekends spent with a log splitter over the coming months. I am sooooo looking forward to getting it done though. I am quite depressed at the state of the garden at the moment. We are having a retaining wall put in opposite the north aspect (our sunny side don’t forget) of the house and until it is done there is no point working on anything in the garden. Consequently it’s the pits. Muddy and messy. Roll on spring.
We are also planning (still!) the extension and up-grading the bathrooms. Eric is still drawing up plans. I am getting a bit fed up with all the talk and little action. I can see me moaning at some time in the future when it all seems to be happening at once and I can’t get cars up the drive for contractors, or do anything in the house for dirt from the work on bedroom extensions or bathroom renovations! It will be sooo good when it is all done though.
Another big thing in my life at the moment is my weight loss. All my life I have been fat. The only thing that has varied is the degree, greater over recent years. The only brief respite from this was when I was very sick in the mid-90’s. I now confess that I was sitting in a large 18/20 dress size 18 months ago. 2 weeks ago I went into a department store when they were having their end of season sale. I reckoned I must be a 14 now (a life’s dream had been to fit comfortably into a 14) and gathered up an armful of skirts and trousers and headed to the changing room. They were all too big (bar one pencil skirt). I ended up in 12’s and a size 10 pair of trousers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Never have I ever even dreamed of getting into size 10. I was on cloud 9 for a week. I still have 8kg’s to go but have lost about 30. I am so proud of myself and relishing in the fantastic comments I am getting from people, particularly those who haven’t seen me for awhile. It’s also nice to see how pleased Eric, Harriette and Alice are with me. Harriette hugs me and says things like ”You’re so skinny now”. Skinny being a relative term, I’m not skinny, I’m just not fat! How have I done it? Weight Watchers. I have tried, and failed with WW’s before. This time I kept 2 thought in my head. 1) I can’t beat the system (I used to tell myself that I could cheat and still loose weight – I couldn’t) and 2) If I don’t go to WW’s how much will I weigh this time next year? If I do, how much will I weigh this time next year? I am not the perfect WW’s client. My weight fluctuates hugely and I have big weight gains interspersed with gains and plateaus. But… here I am, nearing my goal, feeling great and buying size 12 clothes! I can run almost all, of my 3.5km route now. I do still walk for 2 mins twice during it but I’m working on that.
As I’m typing there is a programme on the radio about Inflammatory Bowel Disease (IBD). It takes me back to those miserable days when I suffered so badly with ulcerative colitis. I spent over a decade uncontrolled and on huge doses of steroids with the disease totally dominating my life. It culminated in me being acutely ill and requiring a total colectomy (removal of the large bowel) as an emergency when both the girls were babies. It was a miserable time for us all and I cannot be more grateful for being able to put all that behind me, and coming through it without a permanent ileostomy. I still have occasional problems (those bouts of severe abdo pain I was suffering last year until I got to grips of what causes them) and going anywhere were there is no access to a loo (eg into the bush/ on a long car journey etc) still takes a bit of forethought, but, I am well, do not live in the loo now or suffer almost continuous gripping pains. Thank God for modern medicine.
It’s no good. The sunshine and outdoor chores are calling. I must go.
Saturday, May 10, 2008
Rainbow



Sunday, May 04, 2008
Duck Shooting Season Begins
Friday evening’s late night was because we went out for a meal and to the movies. We were looking for a suitable family movie. The girls had already seen the St Trinians one, separately with girl friends during the school holidays. We opted for ‘3.10 to Yuma’. When the girls asked what it was about and I said a western it then occurred to me that they had never seen a western!!! I grew up on them and we were rather incredulous at the idea. I guess not having a TV does deprive them of some aspects of their education, although how many young people watch westerns these days? Anyway, we decided to go the Redoubt for an early supper then The Regent (the olde worlde cinema I have described previously) both at Te Awamutu. When we arrived at the Redoubt it was smaller than the one in Matamata and very crowded so we decided to give it a miss. It was hosing down with rain and we drove around TA looking for another eatery, feeling that the evening was turning out badly. Well we found Elevations was open. It was a nice place, and I had a $30 discount Entertainment voucher for it, which was a bonus. The meal was very pleasant and we planned to come back after the movie for cheesecake. (We didn’t as it was closed, after all this is rural NZ and it was later than 9.30pm!!) At the Regent we bought tickets and I headed for the loo, only to be stopped by Alice pointing out a sign on the door and saying “No Mom, it’s for Cinema Patrons Only” Duh!!! Alice has come out with some beauts lately asking Harriette why having 5 aces in poker does not beat 4 kings (when they were discussing how to play poker) and during a conversation about needing maths when shopping to calculate how much you get off clothes with certain % discounts, Alice said 20% of $100 was $5. And Harriette is the blonde one!!!!
Anyway, Alice spent her time watching the movie with her fingers in her ears (it was very loud) “too much shooting Mom” or her hands (almost) covering her eyes. Knowing Alice she was probably more worried about the horses than the people. It was a good movie, which both girls really enjoyed. Having said it was good I think it was OK most of the way through with a great ending. Certainly a good one for initiating the girls to westerns.
The temperatures have dropped this week. Our morning temps have gone down into single figures. I ran in 21 degrees C one day late last week (at 7am). I was so hot when I got back that I contemplated a swim but was put off when the thermometer said 15 degrees C. My absolute bottom limit is 16. We have had some good downpours and the paddocks are certainly looking better. I hope this cold spell does not set in as we need the daytime warmth to keep the soil temperatures up and keep the grass growing.
In the veg plot I have picked the last of the courgettes, sweetpeas and kentucky beans. I still get the odd few strawberry’s. I eat them straight off the plant – not enough to bring up and share!! The pumpkins are ready to be bought up. I planted 2 varieties and seem to have 3. One is a pale yellow gourd I have never seen before! I have extended one of the beds a bit and that is planted up now with seedlings. I now have to tackle the large strawberry plot, which has been taken over by a particular weed that I am yet to identify.
It was Daddy’s birthday yesterday. We had them over for a meal and bought Daddy tickets to a local production of Foxtrot Flats for later in the month and a book of the cartoon character. I got the tickets for the night before they head off to Tahiti (with Ann and Mike) but will have to change them as their flight is early and they are staying in Auckland the night before!
Apparently my cousin Bruce is coming over to see his family in Australia in Dec/Jan and so we might take the opportunity to go over there. It falls in with Eric’s long stretch of annual leave and our air miles will need using up.
Work is really busy at the moment. The national immunisation schedule has changed and we have the contract for all the training, I am doing a load of teaching in pharmacies at the moment and the government announced this week the funding of the HPV vaccine from September this year. On Monday I am doing a session which will be digitally recorded and put on to PHO websites!
I may have previously mentioned that Paul Offit, a leading paediatrician in the area of immunisation, is coming to NZ in June. Paul is my hero and I am very excited at hosting him for a lunchtime presentation in Hamilton. I was asked this week if I would be available to drive him to Rotorua afterwards and am looking forward to the prospect of having Paul’s company all to my self for an hour!
Our week at work has been tinged with sadness as an Auckland colleague died suddenly on Wednesday afternoon. Virginia apparently fell at home. She as not particularly healthy and I am wondering if it was a stroke or something that cased the fall. Virginia was one of the few remaining founding members of IMAC and we only saw her 2 weeks ago at a DIF meeting. I was planning to go up to the North Shore (Auckland) for her funeral but I gather it is on Tuesday and I am chairing a meeting that morning that Pat Tuouy, the MoH’s Well Child champion, is coming to Waikato to explain the immunisation targets the Ministry have set for us. I just would not be able to get out of that.
Well I have lit the fire and so it should be a bit warmer now. My hands are freezing sticking out the bed typing so I am going to get dressed, move around and try and get warm!
Saturday, April 19, 2008
The End of the Drought - HURRAY!
I am sitting in bed. I really should go and run but I might not. It is unusual for me to drop a day, maybe once every 2-3 months, and we are planning to do fencing all weekend so I will be working pretty hard. I might still run! Eric has just taken Berance to Te Poi to catch a bus off to the Bay of Islands. Berance is a 17yr French girl who is on NZ for a year as a Rotary exchange student. She stayed with us last night as her host family are away. She is lovely and the girls both get on well with her. They know her from school and the occasional Rotary things they attend. She is very pretty and speaks English well but with a very heavy accent. On the radio (Country Life) they are talking about a caviar farm. I have just shrieked loudly at the news when we heard that the Chiefs beat, the unbeaten, Crusaders in the Super 14. Hamilton will be humming as that took part almost in the middle of the V8’s circuit. The V8’s are in Hamilton this weekend and this, being a nation with an excess of petrol heads, is causing great excitement.
Gosh I’m flicking all over the place! What has been going on around here? Last weekend the girls and I were at the schools band music camp in Raglan. The weather was gorgeous and it was a great weekend. The dynamics were very different this time. Last year the band members were all very new and it was a real ‘getting to know you’ affair. This year there were lots of people who already knew each other, and a batch of newies. Made for a different weekend.
Harriette has borrowed a flute from our friend Angela and playing it regularly. She’s coming on well. Robyn is going to give her lessons but we haven’t got round to organising them yet. I ended up renting an alto sax for Alice and she was playing it heaps to start with. I then sent her bass clarinet off for repair and she is now enjoying playing that now it plays properly. Alice and Harriette have formed an ensemble with 2 friends and are planning to perform at the music festival in August. And me, I’m still loving my piano lessons and play every day. If for some reason I can’t, I get very itchy and I don’t like going anywhere to stay where there is no piano. They did have one at camp but it was so badly tuned to be unplayable! I am really busy with managing the band. We are applying for funding for festival at the moment and I am on a steep learning curve!
I spoke to Elly recently. She just did the London marathon (as did Mark and Cheryl). Now Elly and I used to be such couch potatoes and if you had told me 20 years ago that she would run a marathon in her 50’s I would have said she’d have a better chance of landing on the moon!!! Well she did it and I am immensely proud of her. I wrote and told her that she must now listen to her knees and stop running. I will NEVER run a marathon, half marathon or any such thing. I hate running and the only thing that keeps me doing the little bit I do is the need to loose weight (which I am doing very little of at the moment) and the desire to live beyond 60 which I think was becoming less likely at the weight I was this time last year. The weight loss, as I said, has plateau-ed. I think I might be able to put it down to avo’s and plan to cut them out and see what happens. I was eating them almost daily in my lunchtime sandwich!!!!! That, combined with getting generally slack all round. I am really trying to get back on track now.
I have extended the veg plot a bit more but need to get to Waharoa to get a trailer load of well rotted horse manure. I am still picking the odd strawberry and sweet peas as well as Kentucky beans. This as the pumpkin patch is drying off and it is beginning to feel very autumnal! I must overhaul the strawberry patch as it is over run with one particular type of weed. In fact I might take the runners and move the patch all together.
Well, time to get up I think. I will run!!
Sunday, March 09, 2008
A Typical Sunday Morning
I have had an unbelievably busy week, on top of a busy few weeks. I was ill last weekend but was feeling better by Sunday evening when we went to Mom and Daddy’s for supper. (Stop for a quick dash to the phone to remind them to bring my flashdrive and sunglasses that I left there. They are popping in soon for coffee on their was to Rhuapahu for a few days.
Monday was just trying to catch up on emails and general admin, and fitting in a few visits. I still have over 60 in my Inbox that, over recent weeks, have low priority but need clearing. I hate seeing a double figured number in brackets by Inbox (indicating number of unread messages). Tuesday and Wednesday were long days teaching a Vaccinator Training Course, Thursday I was at a Well Child Day in Tokoroa (40 minutes away) and Friday meetings in Hamilton all day. I thought that next week was going to be quieter. Well it is, but I have soooo much to catch up on.
Yesterday we took the girls to see Golden Compass. Harriette was quite offended that Eric and I found it boring. When I explained that it was a movie made for children her age I think she didn’t like the inference that she wasn’t an adult!! We then went looking for a tenor sax for Harriette. We have decided to buy one for her and send her one back to the rental company and swap it for an alto sax for Alice. Juggling renting, buying and borrowing a total of 6 instruments in a cost effective fashion between them is no mean feat!!
Not a lot else to report. We are off to one of Eric’s firms partner’s places today for a social. Lunch on their farm, off to a 9 hole golf course for a game and then supper at the tavern opposite. Should be a good day.
Sunday, March 02, 2008
Back From Fafa
Well the almost perfect holiday went to pot in the last 24 hours. We were unable to stay 5 nights at Fafa and were booked at the Lagoon Lodge in Nukuo’lofa for the last night. It was horrible. Lukily the bed was OK and had a huge fan but the rest was yuk. A 2 storey self-catering apartment, but all the cupboards smelt musty and there was no resturant or shops nearby to get anything to eat or drink so we were dependant on tea and coffee. We looked around outside and found a small bit of man made beach with a few battered picnic tables with shredded shades. We got a cab into the town, about 10 minutes away and had a coffee at the one decent cafĂ© and then went for a wander round the town and to the markets. That did not take long! The infastructure just does not exist there. The poverty was evident everywhere but everyone still had cellphones and drove big cars, lots of people movers and 4x4’s. Back at the hotel in the afternoon I started to get abdo pain and think I had a tummy bug. By the evening I was feeling really Yuk. I was sure it wasn’t the usual adhesions as the pain was not increasing creshendo-like. I was not drinking and vomited during the night. I looked aweful!! In the morning I went to make tea but nearly passed out. I think my dehydration had dropped my blood pressure. I got to the airport and bought a litre of water, which I managed to keep down and the cabin crew plied me with plenty of fluids on the flight. I actually felt much better by the time we got to Auckland. I am still not right several days later. We got home about 6pm on the Wednesday evening and went back to work on Thursday. I was busy that day and then had the AGM for the schools band that I manage in the evening. That has generated so much work for me! It was 1.30am by the time I got to bed and then had to get up at 5am on Friday to go to a Hepatitis Conference in Whakatane (near where we went camping in January). The conference was good, well run etc but was really aimed at doctors, very bioscience based and far too much of it went way over my head. With hindsight I think IMAC should not have sent so many people. I stayed overnight at my colleague Liz’s place. She and her husband are Scottish and have 3 gorgeous boys. They live on a raised section overlooking the harbour, so beautiful!! I was jealous as she has huge trees of, among other things; peaches, fig, feijoas, avo’s, various plums and citrus fruit. I am really struggling to get my orchard going. Mainly because of the brown beetles that hatch from grass grubs and the stock. Back to the conference. The dinner on Friday evening was excellent and I ate something for the first time since Tuesday really. I suffered during the night. Liz, Kenny and I chatted until nearly midnight then I was up 8 times during the night!! I was feeling really yuk in the morning, felt faint after I showered and decided to go home. I have a horrendously busy week this week and need to try and get over this. Slept much of yesterday and have just been taking it easy since. I have a vaccinator training course to run on Tuesday and Wednesday and have not looked at the education materials that we got in Auckland the day before I went to Tonga. I must spend some of today doing that. Don’t have to worry about cooking supper though as we are going to Mom and Daddy’s this evening.
I am so looking forward to next weekend. Nothing planned and I can spend the following week catching up on myself.
While we were away Harriette and Alice stayed with R+R for the weekend then Mom and Daddy came here so the girls could go to college from home and stick to their normal routine. Harriette didn’t see much of Mom and Daddy as she had rowing Monday and Tuesday evenings. The should have finished this week but are doing another week as they had to cancel some sessions. She and Sarah will miss the last night as they have band on Thursdays. Missing 2 weeks (as they have) is not good but 3 is taking it too far. They also have their auditions booked for this Thursday.
Alice and Harriette absolutely love being at the same school! The evening meals seem to have us seated for longer as they have so much to discuss and notes to compare on teachers etc. Harriette has started her German course through the Correspondence School and Alice has started French with their young Sicilian, and eccentric, French teacher whom they both love. Harriette has been really good helping Alice with her French and Maths homework. It is a pleasure to see the relationship they have. They have always got on, and always had fights but their closeness is even more evident now. I am still struggling to source an alto sax for Alice and a flute for Harriette for this year. I have several irons in the fire before I resort to formal hiring.
Well I think that brings us up to date. Eric is plodding on. He just had another (small) pay rise but it is all going in the right direction. He did get a good bomus at Xmas and an additional payrise in November so is doing well. MagillEarl are undergoing a re-branding exercise at the moment so there are a few changes afoot there. We have a firm social next week. BBQ at one of the partners and 9 holes of golf afterwards. I have NEVER played golf in my life!!!






